What Vocal Program Should I Buy?

Everyday people ask me what vocal program they should buy. The truth is every single bit of helpful singing advice on singing technique is already on YouTube for FREE. If you want to spend money on singing then pay a great vocal coach for an in-person or video lesson where they can pinpoint the direction you might want to take your voice in terms of placement (resonance), breathing, tone, and many other factors. Don't waste lots of money on "vocal programs". You shouldn't be spending a significant amount of time doing the "practice scale" stuff in the them anyway. Focus on in-person (or web-video) one-on-one vocal lessons, building each individual note in your range on every vowel, and most importantly ...singing songs every day!

10 Hair Transplant Questions You MUST Ask Before Surgery

I feel really honored that I have the opportunity to help educate other guys like myself through these videos. Please ask more questions in the YouTube comments, and I'll try to answer them all either on YouTube directly through the comments or in future videos. 

10 Hair Transplant Questions You MUST Ask Before Surgery

I feel really honored that I have the opportunity to help educate other guys like myself through these videos. Please ask more questions in the YouTube comments, and I'll try to answer them all either on YouTube directly through the comments or in future videos. 

Should You Starve Yourself? - Intermittent Fasting Experiment

Panda Zhao and I have just finished our first week of trying intermittent fasting and already loving the lifestyle benefits, increased energy, and body fat-loss results. I've made this new video giving a quick overview. I highly encourage you give it a try for a week and see how you feel.



Some simple instructions BELOW to get you started intermittent fasting...



1. Simply focus on pushing your first meal 4-8hrs after waking. Start with 4-6hrs and increase up to 8hrs as you feel comfortable. Drinks LOTS of water!!



2. Don't think about fasting as restriction. Set your phone timer for 6hrs immediately up waking, and think of it as a game. If you wait to eat after the timer goes off you've won the game. Reward yourself with a great and delicious big meal. Also, give yourself small rewards like a nice cup of black coffee a few hours in.



3. ONLY drink caffeine like coffee/tea during the fasted state. Use as a reward and to suppress appetite. Don't start with the caffeine right away though.



4. Drink 0 calorie sparkling water like Pellegrino ...etc. during the fasted state to increase fullness.



5. Enjoy yourself once it comes time to eat. Eat delicious food. Just make sure you get the proper amount of nutrients ...greens, etc. that you should eat every day regardless of what your eating pattern is.



6. Listen to your body. Just remember that fasting is good for you and remember all the health benefits. Relax and embrace the new change of pace. This is NOT a diet. It's a new and improved eating schedule that can transform your body and your life.



Best Videos on Fasting that I've come across:



Dr. Mike: https://youtu.be/gu8KqV90pKk



Kinobody - Gregory O'Gallagher: https://youtu.be/i-n-9DgqyWY

Lamborghini Bookshelf YouTube Ad Guy - Parody Video

I saw a YouTube ad with a guy with a Lamborghini he bought with "fuel units" and a bookshelf full of books behind him bragging about riding his car in the Hollywood Hills and reading a book every day. I thought it was a funny ad so I made this parody video of it. Definitely the hardest I've laughed all day. Thanks Tai Lopez! ...and thanks to the world's best little brother Mark DiMuzio for having the same sense of humor as me. Maybe it's genetic.

Why I Stopped Watching Porn To Have Better Sex

I’m not gonna say what you think I’m gonna say…

I didn’t stop watching porn because I thought it was morally wrong, degrading to women, or promoted the sale of sex.

I stopped watching porn for an entirely selfish reason; so I could have better (and consequently more) sex. I haven’t even looked at a naked woman unless we were face to face (or in some other position) ever since. 

I realized that what I watch is what I think about, fantasize about, and want. If I spend 20min every day watching John Mayer play guitar then I’m gonna dream about John Mayer playing guitar, about me playing guitar, and about how I can play guitar like John Mayer.

So why will sex be better if you stop watching porn?

The most obvious reason is that if you’re not used to seeing sex or naked girls then when you finally get one in front of you it will be a much more exciting experience. Do you remember how awesome it was the first time you saw a topless picture of a hot girl? I bet currently a lone picture of a hot topless girl wouldn’t even phase you much if you watch porn on a regular basis.

Watching porn makes you want to be a porn star in bed. But that will make you worse at learning what actually pleases a girl sexually, and what will make her want to come back as a repeat customer. Watch the YouTube video entitled “The 15min Orgasm”. There’s not even any sexual penetration involved, and yet girls love it, and it’s one of the most erotic things I’ve ever done. It would also make for the world’s most boring porn video.

Porn is not about sexual pleasure between two people only about visual sensory stimulation. Therefore watching porn will make you a worse lover because it encourages you to overlook many of the best aspects of sexual activity such as erogenous zones like the back of the neck, the nipples, inner thighs, and ears. Massages, biting, and extreme amounts of “build up” actually increase the sensations of an orgasm for both you and your partner yet they’re almost completely overlooked in porn. And I’m not even talking about within a serious relationship. Even with a one night stand you can have twice as much fun if you focus on learning to be a great lover. You can’t learn how to be a great lover if visual sexual sensory overload is what you train your mind to need in order to be sexually satisfied. It’s like training for the Navy Seasl by reading Nicholas Sparks’ novels.

If you’re watching porn to “get ideas” just buy a book of sexual positions or read a book on sexual pleasure. You’ll get way more ideas. …When I watched porn I thought that sex was mostly a male and female socket sorta game. Now I’ve learned about all the other erogenous zones on the body that when activated will make the physical feelings of sex at least ten times better. The hands are the most overlooked sexual part of the body. Learn to use your hands well (never demonstrated in porn), and girls will beg you for sex. 

So how will stopping watching porn help you have MORE sex?

Girls can sense things, and they can sense when you “just want sex” like deers can sense a hunter in a forest. So by watching porn and having that on your mind you’re totally giving off the wrong vibe, and actually getting laid LESS because of it. I’ve had way more sex since I stopped watching porn. Watching porn made me think of girls as potential porn stars in my life …instead of what they really are which is a lot of cool people that have a lot to offer me in terms of friendship, romance (which can also sometimes mean sex), and intelligence. When girls realize you view them as such they’ll ironically be a lot more interested in sleeping with you as well. Weird. 

There are a hundred moral reasons that could be debated as to why you shouldn’t watch porn, but forget about that. Stop watching porn to have better sex and more sex with real girls, and focus on finding one that you really like. As cliche as it might sound; sex with someone you love and have a genuine connection with is always the best.

Speaking of which if you haven’t seen boobies in a while and your girlfriend brings her's out to play it’s pretty freak’n awesome! Versus if you watch giant fake ones bounce around your computer screen every night the real thing just doesn’t have that same “yummy, I didn’t realize I was this hungry!” factor. My decision to stop watching porn was the best thing I ever did for my sex life. Here’s to more great times for you :)

4 Tips To Get Lots Of Tinder Dates With Hot Girls

I posted a video with some Tinder dating tips after going on 14 awesome dates in 10 days using Tinder.

A YouTuber commented on my video saying - “Wanna get lots of dates on Tinder, look like this guy. Wanna get no dates on Tinder, look like me!” …that comment made me laugh. It’s half true.

The number one rule of meeting good looking girls on Tinder is that you must be Attractive. The good news though is that virtually every guy can be attractive. So let’s look at what you can do to make yourself attractive on Tinder and in life. Why? …Because the more attractive a person you are, the better the options in your potential dating pool will be. Here are four ways to immediately make yourself more attractive.

#1 - Go to the gym and build a little muscle. You’ll feel better and more confident because exercise releases endorphins in your brain that make you feel good. And you’ll look good. Even guys that don’t have “beautiful” face will still look fairly attractive once they have a nice body. Add a charming personality to that body, and you’ll have more dates with cute girls than you even have time for.

#2 dress well. Girls appreciate clothes more than guys appreciate clothes. So girls will appreciate a guy that dresses himself well. I personally don’t keep up with fashion so I have my brother Mark choose most of my clothes. You don’t need many clothes. Two pairs of shoes, two pairs of pants, four shirts and a nice jacket will pretty much do the trick. Buy clothes that are modern, trendy, classic, and fit well. If you’re like me and not sure what to buy then I’ve asked my brother Mark who buys clothes for showrooms in NYC if he’d be willing to personal shop for you guys, and for $150 fee he’ll shop for three new outfits for you from the top designers in NYC His email is madimuzio@gmail.com …it’s worth the money. Remember it’s not about quantity. With even just two great classic outfits you can be set for years.

#3 - Great pictures. Even if you aren’t the best looking guy your pictures are a chance to show a little of who you are, and why you’re interesting. Your first pic should be a great & clear shot of your face. One pic should be a little bit funny or cute. One pic should show you doing something fun or adventurous outdoors. You get the idea. Spend some time on taking/picking great pics if you're going to spend time on Tinder. Otherwise you're just wasting time. Your first impression IS your pictures.

Here were three of my pics...

First should be a great & clear picture of your face. The green catches the eye when swiping.

Something funny to show personality or that you have a good body (but only in a casual way).

Something to show you like spending time outdoors or are adventurous.

#4 - Learn to be a good conversationalist. I’ve included links to a few great articles about what makes people feel like they’re having a great conversation. One of the most important is to ask great and specific questions. An example of a bad question is “What are you looking for on Tinder?”. It’s too general, and most people aren’t just looking for one thing. No matter what people answer they’ll feel as if that answer is being judged. A good question would be… “If you could have dinner with anyone living or dead who would it be?” …every girl I’ve asked that question has answered it. Fyi: my answer is Jesus.

In closing. What I’ve learned is that like attracts like. If you want to date a Chinese girl start learning Chinese. If you want to date an emotionally secure, attractive, and successful girl your chances of that happening go up significantly if you’re an emotionally secure, attractive, and successful guy. If you’re not sure how to become one find people that you admire and hang out with them as much as possible. It’s said you are the average of the three people you spend the most time around.

Jīa yóu! (Chinese for “More power to you!”)

How To Have Awesome Tinder Dates: Advice To GIRLS from a guy who cares

I’ve been on lots of Tinder dates (with girls). Many of those girls I’ve ended up becoming friends with. This and the fact that I like to think of myself as a decent sort of person has led me to care about the girls I’ve gone out with, and notice that many of them go on a lot of unnecessarily shitty dates. At worst they end up having sex with guys they wish they hadn’t, or at “best” in very awkward dating situations feeling unsatisfied or misled.

Fortunately with just three changes to they way you deal with the guys you talk to all of this can be pretty easily avoided.

1. Using Tinder girls often end up on “awkward dates”. They texted with the guy and found him charming, but in person there’s just no chemistry. Solution to solving this problem: Have a quick Skype or Google chat (whatever video chat app you use) before you meet. This can save you a lot of time! Once you decide you might want to meet a guy (you can create a “fake account” if you feel the need to so as to not use your real identity) say to him “Hey, you seem cool. I’m up for tea/drink/coffee, but I always like to meet on “Skype” for a second before I go on a date with a stranger. I’m running out the door, but I’ve just got 5min. Here’s my Skype: username.” Then you both jump on Skype, after 5min you say you need to run. From there you can asses as to whether you actually want to go on a date with the guy. It will only have cost you 5min of your life from the comfort of your own home, and any guy who’s not willing to do this isn’t worth going on a date with anyway. Most guys will really appreciate and respect you for this. I know I would. 

2. Girls end up getting somewhat “raped” …I say somewhat because it’s not totally against their will, but it’s with a lot of reluctance. Usually this happens because they either met at the guys place or because the guy came directly to theirs. Now if you just wanna f*ck (which maybe you decided you wanted after the Skype date) then that’s fine. But if you meet at a guys place or he comes directly to yours then to a guy you’ve made an unspoken agreement to have sex. And a guy WILL be disappointed or at least confused if you don’t want to in such a situation. So don’t EVER meet directly at a guys place or yours if your plan is not to have sex. Now you know.

3. The most common mis-matched (pun-intended) is that the girl and guy who meet have very different expectations or interest in what might become of their relationship. The girl wants a relationship, and the guy just wants to f*ck. Or maybe the girl is also game for a casual f*ck, but would rather have that be something that naturally and slowly progresses rather than happens on the first date. With one simple phrase you can weed out every “I just want to fuck you on the first date, leave you unsatisfied, and never see you again” guy you might otherwise be putting yourself in a compromising position with. Somewhere towards the beginning of a chat with a match say (just copy and past the following phrase) “fyi: I’m not a prude, but my policy is I don’t sleep with a guy until after I’m in monogamous committed relationship with them”. Every guy who’s not interested in a possible relationship will immediately move on at the sound of those words. Of course you can always sleep with the guy sooner if you want to, but it’ll drastically weed out all the “one night stand only” guys you might’ve otherwise gone on a date and wasted your time with. …Prepare to be “unmatched” a lot after using this line, haha. 

If you have a question about any other situation or trouble you’ve been facing while “online dating” leave a comment below, and I’ll reply with my thoughts on the best solution for you. 

5 Things I Wish I Knew In High School

5 Things I Wish I Knew In High School

1. Not one girl that I had a crush on when I was kid do I still find attractive. So don't worry whether the pretty girls like you or not until after high school because the girls who are gorgeous when they're young (high school) are usually at their peak. I’ve seen a few exceptions, but they’re rare. As a bonus 1.5 …hang out with “the smart kids and/or ambitious kids” …they usually make the best long-term friends.

2. Exercise, and eat healthy food. It will make you happier, more attractive, and give you tons of longterm and short-term health benefits. 

3. When it comes to your career don't listen to your parents …listen to your heart. Your parents will want what is SAFEST for you, not what is best for you. I actually wish I’d never gone to any school beyond elementary. It’s the single biggest waste of time during the most valuable years of your life. Learn like crazy. Read books, find mentors, & learn skills. I will not suggest to my children that they go to school. I’m going to home school them and teach valuable wisdom and skills that excite them. People remember very little that doesn’t excite them or that they can’t immediately apply. 

4. Learn as many languages as possible. The majority of what you learn in school will be useless the minute you leave school, but the language skills you acquire will transform your life. If that doesn't sound convincing enough then answer this …do you like Spanish boys, do you like Japanese girls? …etc. Well very few of those people can speak English, but if you speak their language they will suddenly appear on your dating food chain. Winning!

5. Become good at something artistic. You don't have to learn to be a great rock guitarist to impress girls or to find self-fulfillment, but having something like playing the harmonica, the beat box, painting, dancing or anything that you do well and can easily practice. It will make you both a more attractive and happier person. 

Is your boyfriend inconsiderate?

Is your boyfriend inconsiderate? …Maybe he is, but before you judge for certain, read this…

I’ve been dating a girl recently and a of couple times in the past few weeks I’ve done things she thought were really inconsiderate. She told me that I wasn’t considering her feelings before I did these things; and that upset her. We had our first serious arguments.

What frustrated me about every one of the situations is that I really thought that I was considering her feelings. I consider myself a considerate guy, and I care a lot about her interests.  I thought she would react one way, but she reacted completely the opposite to how I expected. I tried to explain that I just got it wrong, but that only made her feel more like I didn’t understand her or consider her feelings in the first place.

Finally I came up with an analogy that made sense to both of us…

My mom often buys me gifts that I don’t like. She’ll buy me food that isn’t the type I usually eat. She buys me clothes that aren’t the style I wear. Sometimes she gets it right, but she often doesn’t. It used to make me feel almost physically sick when my mom would buy me gifts like this. How could someone who’s raised me all my life and who loves me so much get what I want so wrong?? Does she not love me? Is she just completely out of touch with who I am? Nope. My mom loves me more than her own life, and after spending eighteen years raising me she knows me pretty well. 

Sometimes even the people who love and understand us the most just get it horribly wrong. It’s not that they don’t care about or understand us. When it comes to guys and girls we often just have different thoughts on what we enjoy, and what’s important. So even if you feel like you’ve explained yourself or your boyfriend should know better give him the benefit of the doubt. Don’t get mad. Just explain yourself again, maybe in a different way this time, and the future the percentage of how often he gets it right will go up. He’ll soon realize he has the most understanding and least reactive girlfriend on the planet, and that’s something the right guy will definitely appreciate.