What Makes A Girl Attractive To Guys - Four Things That Will Make You Formidably Sexy!

What Makes A Girl Attractive To Guys - Four Things That Will Make You Formidably Sexy!

Obviously I’m speaking from my own perspective, but since I have a lot of guy friends I can say that the vast majority of them feel the same way.

These qualities are what makes a girl attractive as a longterm girlfriend or wife. Not in what would make you attractive enough for a guy to what to have sex with you …that’s easy. Just tell a guy you wanna have sex with him directly, and if he’s single he’ll most likely say "yes!". 

But when it comes to qualities that will really make you stand out to guys as “serious girlfriend material” these qualities (maybe surprisingly to some girls) top the list. 

1. Be aesthetically low maintenance. 

Things like the way your nails look, your designer bag, your trendy clothes, awesome make-up …etc. mean almost nothing to most guys. If anything those things are often a negative, because it says to guys “It’s a financial burden to date me”. Those things are complicated looking. Guys don’t like complicated. Every guy I know would appreciate it a hundred times more if a girl went to the gym and did squats and push-ups than if she bought a new outfit and got her nails done. Working out hard and lifting heavy weights demonstrates guts and drive. If you want guys to go crazy for you then be really physically fit. A firm butt and flat stomach beats great make-up and clothes every time. Like attracts like. If you want to be with a fit guy you should be fit yourself. 

2. Exemplify a healthy lifestyle and be responsible. 

Don’t drink or smoke. Again this is just a health aspect and when a guy is even remotely at the point of being ready to commit to a girl then evolutionary psychology says he’s thinking about the type of girl that would make a good mother. Girls that smoke, drink, don’t eat healthy, and don’t take care of their own bodies don’t give the appearance that they would do a good job of taking care of children either. Show that you’d be a great and responsible mom. That’s so sexy!

3. Be confident.

I went out with a really good looking FHM model on a couple dates. The second date she asked me multiple times, “Do you think I’m pretty?” “Do you like me?”, and a lot of other very unconfident sounding questions. Nothing drives a guy more crazy than a girl getting upset every time he glances at another attractive girl or he likes some other girls picture on Instagram. Demonstrate that you’re confident and that you know that you’re the best option by not caring about petty things like that. When a guy doesn’t feel that you “need” him and that you’d be just fine without him he will hold onto you for dear life. There’s also no need to constantly post pictures of every gift he gives you or romantic situation you all share together on Facebook. Doing that doesn’t exude confidence, and it seems way too needy a clingy. 

4. Increase the power and capacity of your brain. 

Read books and constantly look out for way to increase the amount of knowledge, skills, and wisdom contained in your head. When I see a girl reading a book (especially if it’s on a subject I’m interested in as well) my “this is a girl I want to get to know better button” starts flashing red and a siren goes off in my heart. Smart is sexy!

So to sum up….

1. Be aesthetically low maintenance. 

2. Exemplify a healthy lifestyle.

3. Be confident in yourself (and with the idea of being by yourself).

4. Increase the power and capacity of your brain. 

These four things that will make you formidably sexy partner to virtually every potential guy you’d actually want to date.